A couple things on my mind... an AI tool I almost didn't share, a birthday workout, and a mic drop parenting word...


Hey Folks!

Happy Friday! A couple things on my mind...

1. Manus: This is the first AI tool I've genuinely thought "maybe I should keep this to myself." (Credit to my friend Lucas Cole for the tip.) Like OpenClaw, Manus spins up multiple AI agents to complete compound tasks from a single goal. If this sounds confusing, this video gives a solid overview of the shift toward agents and how to work with Manus specifically. Real example: I had a weak landing page on kit.com where many of you signed up for my Family Framework dashboard. I gave Manus the goal, and it built a new landing page, deployed it, embedded the kit.com form, and connected it to Meta ads. It's not perfect and takes some handholding and taste. But the same is true of... most... people.

2. Birthday Test: Yesterday was my birthday, and my son Everett and I decided to start using our birthdays to benchmark overall fitness. So we invented The Birthday Test. Think presidential fitness test meets the Murph: max reps of pushups, situps, pullups, squats, and burpees in 3 minutes each (1 minute rest between), then a timed mile. GREAT workout, we're both super sore, and I think it'll be fun to benchmark every birthday.

3. Presence + Standard: This one's fully from my friend Andy Grear. We're in a men's group together, and Thursday he clearly articulated the central tension of raising kids in 2026. The options usually feel like:

  • High Presence / Low Standards ("gentle parenting" / "Bluey parenting"): Get on your kid's level, help them process their feelings when they act out. This is the millennial default.
  • Low Presence / High Standards (traditional model): Cut off the emotion, reinforce the standard or else. Tough love. I won't absorb the cost of your behavior.

But Andy laid out the third way we're actually called to:

  • High Presence / High Standards: "I love you and I want what's best for you. And because I love you, I want you FREE from this behavior." It costs you. It takes time and effort. Bearing the weight of your child's struggle is a Godly call.

Mic drop. Good word, Andy.

That's it for this week! Have a great weekend, and let's go Charles Oliveira!

Best,

Blake

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